Being wealthy is more about choosing your mental health first. Most of us women tend to take on way too much when it relates to daily obligations. We try to be a superhero for the entire world. We over work our bodies and minds. We ignore our instincts. Out of nowhere it seems like we start doing things that go against the fiber of who we really are. Many times we don’t even realize we have integrated these actions into our daily life until it becomes such a burden that we explode. I will give you an example of how this happened to me. My dream was to always make and sell beauty products. I LOVED taking baths and when Lush hit the mall, I instantly fell in love. Baths were my sanctuary. I had young children, and I would NEVER want them to see their mommy crying, so I would get them all ready for bed and hop in the bath and let my feeling out. These bath bombs were between 10-15 dollars! I thought there is no way that I will be paying this amount just to take a bath, so I started making them. Then I started making them for my family, then my friends. Next thing you know the request were coming from strangers and people I associated with like bowlers and teachers at my kids school. Before I knew it, my kitchen had become a beauty lab in the evening.
I had a family member who wanted to enter the Beauty industry providing services. I thought hey.. let’s find a building where you can provide services and I can sell my bath bombs and other products. We found a building and committed to the business. It did not work, and I was left having to fill a void that I never even planned on doing. Well in my mind, I said no problem and quickly started providing brow services, and started vending all while finding people to rent the booths out. I was instantly drained and doing things I never expected, but I did not want to quit so I just piled it on top of me. I was vending and making money and eventually I was able to rent the few booths to allow other women to begin to build their business. I loved it so much, I told my husband I wanted a full scale salon to add to my beauty bar. In December of 2018, we purchased a bigger building about 1 block from my current building, then a week later my mother in law got sick. I allowed a hair stylist to rent a booth and it was going so bad, but we were at the hospital daily and she was basically in the shop all by herself.
I was DRAINED.. I had someone in my Beauty Bar who was not aligned with the level of etiquette that I expected. I quickly realized that I never wanted to have a business that provided services, and had modified my dream to support someone else’s dream and was standing alone. I fell in love with sage and starting “sageing” folks bad energy only to realize that it was actually more beneficial when I saged my own bad energy.
Smudging is so purifying to the air around you and tends to provide relief to negative energy. Its a spiritual thing that is cleansing and stress relieving. If you ever feel the need to “Sage” negativity, I HIGHLY recommend you focus on the negativity that comes from within yourself. Grab a soul smudging kit and a bath bomb off my website; product links are below. I personally make both products in my beauty lab in the Metro-Detroit area. My bath bombs are made from all natural products and make your skin feel amazing. I even sell a “Sportsbomb” that is menthol based and is perfect for aches and pains. It’s like a liquid massage. So when you are having a tough day mentally and filled with negative thoughts find a quiet space, open a window and throw on some good music and start soul sageing your negative thoughts away
Below is my spearmint Eucalyptus “BlyssBomb”. Our Blyssbombs have a moisturizing formula that delivers benefits to the skin that work to nourish and hydrate. Naturally derived from the earth and providing the skin with nourishment and moisture — things that every type of skin needs and appreciates.
Below is our “Soul Smudge Kit”. I am hoping this blog will motivate you to begin to start your soul sageing journey
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Lets stop thinking we need to sage because people have brought negativity in our space… let’s focus on the negativity we create from within! There is far more value in ridding our body, mind and spirit of the mental vitriol that we create all on our own…. SAGE YOURSELF!!!
